Bilsington Priory: Kent’s Hidden Gem for a Fairytale Wedding

Sophia Shafiee
Last updated: 16th Jul 2025

If you’re looking for a wedding venue that blends centuries of history with exclusivity and charm, Bilsington Priory in Kent might just be the place where your love story becomes legend. Nestled in the countryside, this stunning former Augustinian priory, founded in 1253, now offers couples a unique and unforgettable backdrop for their special day.

But Bilsington Priory isn’t just a picturesque wedding destination – it’s a setting steeped in history, intrigue, and a few delightfully quirky tales that make it unlike any other wedding venue in Kent.

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A History of Romance, Ghosts and… Smugglers?

Once a place of monastic devotion, Bilsington Priory later became home to a lively cast of characters, including smugglers, ghosts and even royalty. In the 18th century, the Aldington Gang, a notorious smuggling ring, used the Priory as part of their clandestine operations. Local legend has it that ghostly apparitions and eerie owl calls were encouraged by these smugglers to keep prying eyes away – perfectly setting the scene for a wedding with an air of mystery and magic!

Another fascinating tradition tied to the history of the Priory is the annual payment for Flannel Field – originally £5 to provide villagers with red flannel, now converted into a coal donation at Christmas. Imagine incorporating a touch of this unique history into your winter wedding with cosy red flannel details or warm, flickering fires that nod to the priory’s past.

And let’s not forget St Thomas Becket, the famed martyr of Canterbury, who is said to have used the Priory as a hostel. Who knows? Perhaps the sacred atmosphere of this place has been blessing unions for centuries!

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A Breathtaking Setting for Your Big Day

Beyond the rich history, the beauty of Bilsington Priory speaks for itself. Imagine saying “I do” in a grand medieval space where monks once gathered, with light streaming through arched windows, illuminating the centuries-old stone walls. The grounds boast lush gardens, picturesque fish ponds (where medieval monks once fattened their fish for Friday meals!), and scenic countryside views that provide an idyllic setting for wedding photos.

For couples who love tradition but also want modern luxury, the restored Priory offers everything you need – even a stunning new tree-lined marquee with panoramic views across the estate. The secluded nature of the venue ensures a truly private and intimate experience, whether you’re dreaming of a grand banquet or a cosy candlelit ceremony.

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A Royal Touch to Your Reception

Did you know that at one time, monarchs were presented with three maple cups at their coronation banquet? This historic custom, tied to Bilsington Priory, was discontinued after King George IV’s reign. Why not bring it back in a way that suits your wedding? Perhaps a unique toast with handcrafted wooden goblets, or a nod to royal feasting with a menu inspired by history.

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Make Your Own History at Bilsington Priory

For couples seeking something beyond the ordinary, Bilsington Priory is more than just a venue – it’s a living, breathing piece of history. Whether you’re drawn in by its medieval grandeur, its quirky past, or its unparalleled beauty, this Kentish gem is the perfect place to begin your own legendary love story.

After all, when you get married in a place that has hosted monks, archdeacons, smugglers, and kings, your wedding day is bound to be unforgettable.

To find out more or book a viewing, head to Bilsington Priory’s Bridebook profile and start planning the wedding you’ve been dreaming of.

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Happy Planning!

Sophia Shafiee
Sophia is a passionate writer and editor and expert on all things wedding content related, with a First Class degree from the University of Oxford. She frequently shares her wedding advice and tips with leading UK publications on behalf of Bridebook.com, including Harper’s Bazaar, SheerLuxe and Porter Magazine.
Last updated: 16th Jul 2025